Must try this!

From How To Be Notified When Google Indexes Your Site: GIN Google Index Notification Tool - Robin Good's Latest News.:

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Free to download, GIN shows you precisely which Web pages are actually being indexed by the Google spider and notifies whoever you want in near real-time.

Created by JRBTECH, GIN provides a useful feature for those who are publishing new sites and needing to promptly know when Google starts to indexing their site.

Setup is very easy: just include a call to a small PHP script inside your HTML code and you are up and running.

If you are a blogger or a user of a full-fledged CMS you should include this call to the GIN PHP script inside your template files.

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